The 7-Step Divorce Process in New Jersey

Filing for divorce in New Jersey can be overwhelming. The goal of an experienced divorce attorney is to help your transition from marriage to divorce as smooth as possible. For some, this happens quickly and without a great deal of strife, but for others the divorce process can be long and frustrating. Understanding what to expect from the moment you file to when the time arrives for you to begin a new life can make the transition just a bit easier.

Our firm understands how difficult divorce is for families. We offer experienced legal representation and guidance to our clients with respect for your rights and your family’s unique needs and goals. We will stand beside you, offering representation and guidance to help you through this difficult time. Many divorce cases can be finalized simply with the first two steps of the 7-step divorce process in New Jersey, which should be the ultimate goal. However, in some cases, when the two parties do not agree, further steps are required to best serve your needs.

Filing the Complaint for Divorce

Divorce litigation begins when one spouse files a Complaint for Divorce against the other. Generally, the Complaint is filed with the New Jersey Superior Court in the county they live in. If you are the one filing the complaint, you and your attorney will fill out the necessary documents and submit them to the Court. These complaint documents should include your contact information, the grounds for your divorce request, and information about medical, life, and other types of insurance coverage.

The complaint is then served upon the non-filing spouse. The Court will expect you to file written verification that the complaint was served. The non-filing spouse then has a specific amount of time to file their answer to the complaint.

Case Management Conference

For the next of the 7 steps in the New Jersey divorce process, the Court must get a sense of what issues are involved in your divorce. To do so, the Court will schedule a Case Management Conference. This is the first court appearance and both spouses are usually expected to attend depending on the county. Essentially, the purpose of the Case Management Conference is to give everyone a clear understanding of what decisions must be made in the divorce. The court will issue a Case Management Order formalizing what tasks needs to be accomplished, and the timeline for completing each task.

The Case Management Conference also gives attorneys and their client an opportunity to make a good first impression on the Judge assigned to your case. Through your attorney, you will be able to give the Judge your input and possibly settle some of the issues at hand.

If necessary in your case, the Judge may also direct you and your spouse to begin working with designated third-party professionals who are considered “experts.” It is common for two types of experts to become involved in divorce cases:

Custody and Parenting Time Experts

Divorcing parents are given an opportunity to make short and long-term decisions about legal and residential custody of their children, as well as the parenting time schedule. If custody and parenting time issues are unresolved at the time of the Case Management Conference, the Judge may schedule a free mediation session at the courthouse. If that mediation fails, the parents may need to undergo an evaluation to determine what arrangement is in their children’s best interest.

Financial Experts

In some cases, it may be necessary for financial professionals, such as forensic accountants or business valuation experts, to become involved in your case. A financial expert reviews the couple’s personal financial records (and business records, if applicable) and provides guidance on spousal support, the value of a business interest, and other issues related to finances.

Of course, not every case will require the use of experts. You should discuss the specifics of your case with your attorney prior to the Case Management Conference to determine whether experts will be necessary.


The third step in the 7-step New Jersey divorce process is discovery. This is an opportunity for each spouse’s legal team to become familiar with the details of the marriage and gather information for the negotiations. Information and documentation regarding income, financial assets, debt/liabilities, real estate, and other financial issues is exchanged. Each spouse completes a Case Information Statement, which is a document that provides a summary of your income, expenses, assets, and debts. The court assigns a deadline for the completion of discovery, which must be complied with.

Discovery includes a great deal of back-and-forth between your attorney and your spouse’s attorney. Each side will be given the opportunity to issue discovery requests, which include Interrogatories (a series of detailed questions) and a Notice to Produce (a list of documents to be provided to your attorney). The Judge will assign a deadline for answers to be provided. If necessary, your attorney can issue subpoenas and conduct depositions to allow attorneys to gather even more information.

Some couples are able to reach a settlement during the discovery phase. If so, the attorneys finalize the paperwork memorializing the settlement (usually called a Property Settlement Agreement) and the next step in the divorce process becomes an appearance in court at an “Uncontested Hearing” to finalize your divorce. Unfortunately, not all divorces are that simple and couples often have different ideas about what is fair in their divorce settlement.

Early Settlement Panel

Litigants who are unable to reach an agreement by the discovery deadline must appear before an Early Settlement Panel to discuss the details of the case and the unresolved issues. The panel consists of two or three experienced and neutral divorce attorneys or retired judges who make recommendations regarding your divorce settlement after reviewing both parties’ settlement proposals. If you and your soon-to-be-former spouse reach an agreement based on the Early Settlement Panel’s recommendations, a Judge can finalize your divorce, sometimes within hours.

Economic Mediation

If your case is not settled at the Early Settlement Panel, the next step to divorce in New Jersey is “post-panel” economic mediation. The mediation is with one neutral attorney who provides the first two hours of service at no charge. Subsequent time spent by the mediator is charged to each side equally (50-50). The purpose of this mediation is to resolve the economic issues in a case, such as equitable distribution of marital property and support.

Benefits of mediation include confidentiality, the opportunity to create a mutually acceptable agreement, and a chance to take an active role in resolving the divorce dispute. Mediation might also save all parties the time and money of further court appearances.

Intensive Settlement

If “economic” mediation fails, the Judge would then schedule your case for an Intensive Settlement Conference (ISC). The ISC is held at the courthouse and with the Judge who in most cases would hear your trial. All parties and attorneys are expected to attend the ISC. During the ISC, the attorneys will discuss the unresolved issues with the Judge and convey the Judge’s settlement recommendations.

It is important to know that the Judge does not hear testimony from you or your spouse at the ISC, or make any formal decisions. Rather, the Judge may indicate how they typically rule on the issues presented in your case. During this step of the divorce process in New Jersey, the Judge may offer his or her initial impressions of the case to your attorneys, with the caveat that they will keep an open mind should the matter proceed to trial. The courts require at least one Intensive Settlement Conference before a trial is scheduled.


If the Intensive Settlement Conference is unsuccessful, your case proceeds to trial. At trial, the Judge will hear testimony from you and your spouse, any experts who have been involved, and review documents admitted into evidence by both sides. The normal New Jersey Rules of Evidence apply and are generally enforced. Your attorney will make a legal argument on your behalf. The role of the Judge is to make findings of fact (there is no jury), then apply the law to those facts. In so doing, the Judge makes decisions about the unresolved issues in your case. The Judge will issue a written opinion and a Judgment of Divorce incorporating the court’s directives. It is very important to know that trials are expensive and time-consuming, so it is in the best interest of the divorcing couple and the court system to avoid them whenever possible.

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Are you considering divorce? Have you begun divorce proceedings and you want the reliable assistance of an experienced divorce attorney? Galit Moskowitz can help you through the 7-step divorce process in New Jersey, together with her team of experienced lawyers.

Ms. Moskowitz has been practicing exclusively in the area of family law for more than 16 years and was certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Law Attorney.  She focuses on custody, child support, spousal support, equitable distribution, dissolution of civil unions and domestic partnerships, palimony, domestic violence, grandparent visitation, and international child abduction. She is admitted to practice law both in New Jersey and New York states, and is a fluent speaker of Hebrew. Ms. Moskowitz has been recognized for her work as a Family Law attorney by various independent legal organizations including AVVO, and (201) Magazine. She was recently a distinguished speaker in NASDAQ in New York City, the Harvard Club in Boston and was featured on ABC Channel 7 News.

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