What to Discuss During a Consultation for Father’s Rights

If you are a father who needs legal guidance regarding custody or visitation, you are not alone. Protecting your parental rights and navigating family law cases can be complex.

The knowledgeable family law team at Moskowitz Law Group put together this quick read to help guide you. Contact us to learn what to discuss during a consultation for father’s rights in New Jersey.

Clearly Outline Your Case and Needs and Ask Questions

During your consultation, you should clearly outline your case and needs. It will be important for the family law attorney to know the entire history of your case and what your goals are so they can advise you accordingly. The more information, the better. The attorney’s advice will tell you what your rights and obligations are, and include whether you must do things such as establishing paternity, what kind of custody to seek, whether you need to seek enforcement or modification of an existing agreement or order, or file an emergent application instead of a regular motion. The attorney may also advise you to seek your goals through mediation and negotiation rather than litigation. After receiving the attorney’s advice, be sure to ask any questions you may have to help understand the advice you are given.

Whether you want answers about the difference between legal and residential custody, or what to do if your child’s mother intends to move out of state, having answers to these tough questions will give you peace of mind.

Discuss Child-Related Issues

Child-specific issues may also come up during your legal consultation. New Jersey custody laws are gender neutral. Neither the mother nor the father have any greater right than the other. Thus, as a father, you generally have the right to take an active role in your child’s life. In light of this, you must consider discussing their unique needs and how you have provided for them. Give your attorney details about the stability of your home environment and let them know if your child has preferences regarding their living arrangements. If your children are old and mature enough to express an intelligent preference, the Court may want to hear from them.

Seek Guidance About Coparenting Concerns and Strategies

Whether you were never married to your child’s mother or are going through a divorce, coparenting can be difficult. Be ready to discuss your ability to communicate respectfully with the other parent, as this is a key consideration for the Court. This is also your opportunity to raise any concerns you have about your child’s other parent, such as substance abuse, domestic violence, mental health, physical health, or any other issue that could put your child at risk.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney Who Understands Your Rights as a Father

Now that you have a basic understanding of what to discuss during a consultation for father’s rights, it is time to reach out to the compassionate family law attorneys at Moskowitz Law Group. Let us explain your options in a way that makes sense to you, particularly if you are in a high-conflict situation.